This is for those who are in a relationship.

wtf-michelle:

Don’t ever give up. Think about the reasons why you’ve held on for so long. Understand that your relationship isn’t meant to be similar to others’. What makes your relationship special is the bond between you two. Fuck what others have to say about your relationship, let it be some sort of motivation for you two to last even longer. Don’t lack your effort, and remember to continue being the same person your significant other fell for. Don’t ever change. Don’t let an argument ruin what you two have. Don’t be too quick to leave, especially when it comes to the littlest things. At least try to work things out and compromise. Most of all, don’t let anyone nor rumors break you two up. Keep your head up, and breakthrough each and every obstacle as a couple. You two are in this together.

(Source: ohitsashley)

Know your limits.

Jokes, words, everything has it’s limits. Just because you’re someone’s friend, bestfriend, boyfriend/girlfriend, you need to know when to stop pushing on a subject, joke, or just saying hurtful things. People have their limits, and they can only handle so much. Don’t push someone so much, to the point where they feel like they’re about to fall off a cliff.

(Source: lalalalalacaitlinmay)

trungphan:

Love and relationships aren’t perfect, you need to understand that.

During  the course of the relationship you two will fight, disagreements will happen, and you two will say things to each other that you wish you didn’t say, but at that very moment you have to decide what is more important to you? The one who you’ve made so many memories with, that one special person that you confided and trusted in for so long, the one person that was there for you when you were at your worst and simply, that one person who has your heart. I mean, would you rather lose the person you love or the argument, to me the choice would be pretty clear, but sometimes people are too stubborn to set aside their ego because they must insist that they are right and in return, one or the other ends up hurting because of it, the relationship suffers and eventually breaks because of it. When fights happen you have to talk it out, don’t yell at each other and most importantly don’t walk away because if you do it shows that person that they weren’t worth fighting for and that hurts them. Show them that they are worth it, even through the pain and adversity you may face, assure them that you’re there to stay and that you won’t give up, you know?

HAPPY 6 Months to me and my GF(:

In Vegas baby for New Years!

Day 1: A few things you will never forget in 2011.

• Leaving San Diego to go to Bootcamp
• Recieving letters from bootcamp
• Graduating Bootcamp
• IT “A” school in Pensacola, FL
• July 2, 2011 <3
• Countless hours on the phone w/ my love
• Graduating IT “A” school
• Living the Navy life
• Living on my own
• Getting Papers $$$$
• The Distance and 2 months of waiting was worth everything
• Coming back home to San Diego
• Meeting my GF’s family
• San Diego’s Black Out
• Buying my own car (BMW) at the age of 19
• 20th Birthday Celebration
• Double Dates and Triple Dates
• Volunterring at FilAm
• Volunterring at WoD, meeting Chachi up close and personal
• Haunted Hotel
• Knotts Berry Farm with the GF
• Taking care of my GF when she got into an injury
• GF’s Homecoming
• Spending priceless moments with my GF
• Thanks Giving and Black Friday
• December Nights
• Ice Skating with the GF
• Monthly Anniversaries

Thats all I can think of…

I think the best part is reaching that point of your relationship where everyday feels the same and that you don’t have to worry about anything changing. You’ll still wake up to the same sleepy face and still be encapsulated by the warmth of the same awkward limbs, and still be able to share the same silly comments and thoughts and faces that only you two understand. I know it sounds repetitive and boring and is just a pattern that some can’t break, but I think it’s the most comforting in the world because some people can never reach that point and I think it means a lot when you do. It’s letting someone see and be with you in a way that no one else could. That’s what makes it so special.