trungphan:

Love and relationships aren’t perfect, you need to understand that.

During  the course of the relationship you two will fight, disagreements will happen, and you two will say things to each other that you wish you didn’t say, but at that very moment you have to decide what is more important to you? The one who you’ve made so many memories with, that one special person that you confided and trusted in for so long, the one person that was there for you when you were at your worst and simply, that one person who has your heart. I mean, would you rather lose the person you love or the argument, to me the choice would be pretty clear, but sometimes people are too stubborn to set aside their ego because they must insist that they are right and in return, one or the other ends up hurting because of it, the relationship suffers and eventually breaks because of it. When fights happen you have to talk it out, don’t yell at each other and most importantly don’t walk away because if you do it shows that person that they weren’t worth fighting for and that hurts them. Show them that they are worth it, even through the pain and adversity you may face, assure them that you’re there to stay and that you won’t give up, you know?